Sleep. It’s such a complicated thing for a parent. How can I possibly be expected to manage something that I can neither control nor measure?
For quite some time it has been a theory of mine that Isaac has not been getting enough sleep. Possibly the sleep he gets wasn’t high enough quality. Either way, a good night’s sleep seemed to be a critical indicator of future mood performance.
Gabe, on the other hand, always woke up way too early. I always wanted him in bed by 8:00 so I could have some time to myself, but that always meant a 6am bouncy boy on my bed.
So, I did what any reasonable parent would do.
I told them they could stay up as late as they wanted.
There are rules. At 7:45 everyone brushes their teeth and gets pajamas on. At 8:00 everyone goes to their rooms and reads quietly. They go to sleep when they feel tired, but I always wake them at the same time in the morning.
If they are ever too tired to get themselves ready in the morning, then I start making noises about predetermined bed times. I hope they never call that bluff.
So far the plan has worked pretty well. They’ve both stayed up too late. They have both regretted it in the morning. They have both adjusted their schedules accordingly the following night. Then a few days pass and they forget. Then they stay up to late, and so on.
Sometimes I wander into someone’s room and find something like this:
The added benefit is that I get to jump on Gabe’s bed in the mornings yelling “Get up, get up!”
It’s the little perks that make parenting fun.










